I discovered this past week the best times to take a walk. I decided that I needed to take a thought-walk at least every other day if I was going to keep my head on straight. After a day or two of feeling the beginnings of a cough, I sloshed through the rain and mud puddles towards the nearest pharmacy. The mud impeded rickshaw drivers from testing their wheels, people stood under storefronts or whatever shelter they could find, and people driving cars scrambled to find their way home. The road was left for me and a few pedestrians to walk on. I had to keep myself from doing a Gene Kelly number on the sidewalk (the slight fever might have had something to do with the experience). I would probably take a rainy thought-walk again as long as the rainwater doesn’t pass my ankles. The second best time to take a walk is immediately after a rain, such as this morning. People have the same idea, but the streets are not overcrowded…yet. I grabbed my camera to see what I could capture. Across the hospital, a man who was selling mangoes caught my eye. I snapped a photo and hopped away, delighted because I love taking pictures of fruit sellers. Then my courtesy light bulb went off and I hurried back to him and asked to buy a few mangoes. I got SIX MANGOES for a little over 1 USD!

Carolina Mommy Moment: I’m a displaced northerner confronting the daily challenges of maintaining a work-life balance as a wife and working mom. Originally from NJ, I’ve lived in Baltimore, Bangladesh, Taiwan, and Los Angeles, but now I call North Carolina home. I am actually doing something with my MA in East Asian Studies (gasp!) and work as a program coordinator for China-related projects (yes, I had to learn Chinese, it is not my native language).
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Rain Walking and After
I discovered this past week the best times to take a walk. I decided that I needed to take a thought-walk at least every other day if I was going to keep my head on straight. After a day or two of feeling the beginnings of a cough, I sloshed through the rain and mud puddles towards the nearest pharmacy. The mud impeded rickshaw drivers from testing their wheels, people stood under storefronts or whatever shelter they could find, and people driving cars scrambled to find their way home. The road was left for me and a few pedestrians to walk on. I had to keep myself from doing a Gene Kelly number on the sidewalk (the slight fever might have had something to do with the experience). I would probably take a rainy thought-walk again as long as the rainwater doesn’t pass my ankles. The second best time to take a walk is immediately after a rain, such as this morning. People have the same idea, but the streets are not overcrowded…yet. I grabbed my camera to see what I could capture. Across the hospital, a man who was selling mangoes caught my eye. I snapped a photo and hopped away, delighted because I love taking pictures of fruit sellers. Then my courtesy light bulb went off and I hurried back to him and asked to buy a few mangoes. I got SIX MANGOES for a little over 1 USD!
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Let me eat cake
Last night Fatima’s mom arrived at our place for a visit, and it was her birthday yesterday! I was quite amused a few weeks ago when Fatima celebrated her birthday and fed bite-sized portions of cake to her students. I found the gesture intimate and sweet. In the states, we commonly witness feeding cake with one’s hands during a wedding. However, it is a custom to eat with one's hands in Bangladesh (and still in some parts of my parents' home country, the Philippines). At the time, I was set on sticking to my habit of using forks to eat and declined to let Fatima essentially stuff cake, icing and all, into my mouth. In this picture, I am meeting an “elder” for the first time, and what do you know? Five weeks have flown by and I feel comfortable enough to obey Fatima’s mother’s wishes and eat cake from her hand.
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
The Red Thread
My students write one journal entry per week. Little do they know that I love reading their journals. Two weeks ago I gave my students the topic "objects." One of my Cambodian students wrote the following: "Buddhist people in Cambodia consider the red thread that is from the elder people, priests, monks or their parents is the holy thing. They believe that the red thread could protect them from evil spirits, disease or bad things that are about to occur to their lives. Also, it could give them good luck and bring success. Therefore, people often asked each to these people, monks, priests or parents giving sermon and tie for them around their wrists. Mostly, people often tie the thread in many different circumstances. For instance, when students are about to take their final exam, they often go to pagodas and ask monks the thread to reduce their fears and to bring good luck during the exam. Sometimes they could ask their parents to do for them because in Buddhism people consider their parents as Gods. Also, the Cambodia traditional wedding ceremony, a groom and a bride are tied the read thread by the elder relative or their parents for love and happiness. Furthermore, when a child who is just born, parents often ask grand-parents or holy people to tie the red thread on their wrists to prevent the evil spirits and disease. And, they keep doing this on the next birthday. In brief, it has become to a custom in Cambodia, and nobody knows how long it has been existed."
I've taken a course on Buddhism, visited museums with Buddha statues, traveled across China and saw several Buddhist temples, and still I had no idea what red thread signifies. Thanks to my student, now I know!
I've taken a course on Buddhism, visited museums with Buddha statues, traveled across China and saw several Buddhist temples, and still I had no idea what red thread signifies. Thanks to my student, now I know!
Saturday, June 5, 2010
Pineapple Rice
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Chittagong (Jiadagang in Chinese)
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